Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Sam and Chris, separated at birth?







OK, here is the photographic proof of what we have been saying for 2 years. Sam Bradford and my nephew Chris are brothers. If you thought Sarah Palin and Tina Fey were dead ringers, tell me what you think of these two. The best part is that Chris is a big OSU fan and hates it when we talk about how much he looks like the Heisman trophy winner. BOOMER SOONER!

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Waiting for Big Al


Little Al is our dog.  I have talked about him before,but I have to give the whole story to describe these pictures.  We got Little Al sometime in early 2000 from Amber's brother Alan.  He (Alan) originally wanted Al for himself, but there was a city ordinance in the town he was moving to that prohibited pit bulls.  So, we got to have Little Al since Big Al could not keep him.  Al has been our dog, actually more like our firstborn, ever since.  He is great with Abbie and all of the family.  He loves going to Ralph and Janice's and will torment us if he thinks we are going without him.  But of all the people he loves, Big Al still seems to be his favorite.  Alan stayed with us for a couple of days last week and I took these pictures of Little Al after he found out that Alan was coming.  Al was beside himself until Alan got here.  Al did not stay with Alan for very long, but he sure has never forgotten him.  It is something that just makes me smile.

Monday, December 08, 2008

At least she had not fallen asleep...

Embarrassing pictures that parents take of their kids are fun aren't they?  If you are the parent, of course.  I could not resist catching Abbie "in the act."  There is an old photo of me in a similar position, but I had fallen asleep.  Over the years that photo has provided much joy for many family members not named Joby.  So that is why Abbie gets the same treatment.  I know, my photo was not broadcast over the internet, but that is the price you pay for technology, right?  By the way, her favorite part of this process is when she comes running out of the bathroom with her underwear around her ankles yelling "all done, all done!"

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Post bedlam thoughts

Man what a game that was last night. I have some thoughts afterwards and after the BCS fallout from today. First, the flip that Bradford did may have won him the Heisman. That play is a definite signature play and one that just made a statement about what he means to the team. Second, I hope the torn ligaments in Bradford's left hand do not affect him that much. Remember when Jason White won the Heisman and led us in destroying people all year only to be hampered by an injury in the last two games? I have an uneasy feeling about that. Third, who is ever going to want to play middle linebacker on defense for us again? It is almost an automatic knee injury this year. Fourth, I can not believe how many people (especially at ESPN) got on the Texas bandwagon against us. I can just see those same people really wanting to see us fall on our face vs. Missouri and our bowl game. I think it could help the team if they take on an "us against the world" mentality. Finally, man do the Cowboy fans hate us or what? I have seen some really bitter stuff coming out since the game and the BCS came out. I am not a fan of the Cowboys by any strech, but I do not think it comes close to hatred. Now Chase Daniel on the other hand...

Thursday, November 27, 2008

A house is not a home...

I have uploaded some pictures to flickr of our house.  I would have put some on this post, but there are too many to choose from.  Recently, we have done some work (or had some work done, I should say) to our house.  Taking down wallpaper, painting, carpet, new furniture and decorations.  I am not a big fan of this type of thing because of the expense.  But, I sure do appreciate the results.  It feels more like "our home" now that we have put more of our stamp on and in it.  Amber picked out the carpet, furniture and paint styles and did a great job.  Alana and Janice picked out some furniture and the decorations.  They also put things in order for our thanksgiving gathering and had the house looking spectacular.  Our painters were top notch and we are much more at home now, and most importantly have an OU decorated bathroom!  Even though it is expensive to do this kind of thing, it is worth it.  I am very thankful for our home and family.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Happy Thanksgiving



We went to Mom and Dad's this past weekend to celebrate Thanksgiving.  We had a good time and enjoyed some great food.  The kids were fun to watch and really enjoyed it when Amber read to them.  We really did not get to stay very long since I had to get back for a meeting.  It was good to see everyone, though.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

A night of Thunder


I went to my first Thunder basketball game last night.  My brother-in-law has season tickets and was nice enough to ask my father-in-law and I if we would like to go to the game against the Rockets.  I enjoy watching sports, but I am not a fan of being in crowds of LOTS of people.  I have been to a few sporting events in my life.  Our family used to go to Kansas City and watch Royals games when I was younger.  I got to see George Brett and Bo Jackson hit home runs and Bo broke a bat over his knee.  I have only been to a couple of Sooner football games.  One at Norman and the Big 12 Championship in 2004 at Kansas City.  That being said, I think one of the best parts of going to the event is the crowd.  Yes, it is fun to watch the stars shine on their stage, but when the crowd gets into a good game, that is what I enjoy most.  There were some good crowds at Kansas City, but in an open park like that, it was not overpowering.  The big 12 championship was almost all Sooner fans and when AD ran for a touchdown to our endzone, it got pretty nuts.  I was hoping the crowd would be "electric" for the game last night and for the most part I was dissappointed.  Do not get me wrong, I really enjoyed the game, but the crowd seemed flat for the most part.  The team played a good 1st quarter and a decent 2nd quarter to trail at half 56-50.  I thought the 1st half was a good showing and more than I expected against a team as good as the Rockets.  The 3rd quarter was brutal.  The Thunder could not hit anything and by the time they started to score, they were down by about 15.  Through all this time it seemed to me the crowd was not as loud or excited as I had expected.  The 4th quarter was better and the Thunder looked like they could make a run.  I started to feel the crowd coming alive and there were critical points that could have turned the game.  First, early in the quarter, the Thunder trimmed the lead to 8 and had a chance to get it to 6.  After a steal, we had the ball and the crowd was into it.  The Rockets fouled us and called timeout before the free throws.  Our best player was still on the bench for his start of the 4th quarter rest.  The coach did not put him back in, we missed both free throws, Houston made a couple of buckets and in no time we were down by 12 instead of 6.  Then, later in the quarter the team started playing good defense and the crowd started to pick up.  THE play that could have "Blown the roof off the dump" was a breakaway after a Houston turnover.  We were pushing the ball up and I could see Kevin Durant (our best player) coming on the backside for an alleyoop that would have been HUGE.  But the pass was behind him and we turned the ball over and the crowd just fizzled.  I had a good time and I think the team can be good, they are just young.

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

I have returned...

Hi there.  I am sorry for the long hiatus, but it has been tough to find the time and I have not taken any new pictures recently.  I have any number of things to rant about.  Aggravations at work, the aggravating new dress code at work, the aggravating (if not scary) election results, and numerous other aggravations.  But, I choose to talk about the picture above.  This past weekend we went to Ada for a brief visit to celebrate Dad's birthday (belatedly).  Even though the stay was brief, it was a very enjoyable trip.  Mom had the idea to have a picnic style lunch at the park and it was a great idea.  The weather was pefect.  There was lots of sunshine and almost no wind.  We all ate some KFC (Abbie too, thank goodness), then played on the swing, jungle gym, and fed the ducks.  Abbie really took to leading mom and dad around and sort of "showing off" for them.  It was neat to watch.  I have not really seen Abbie be like that with mom and dad until now.  It made me smile inside and out.  When the ducks saw us coming, they made a beeline (or is that a duckline?) to us for what little bread we had.  They were honking up a storm and Abbie is not real fond of loud noises.  She went to dad for security and thats when I took this picture.  Again, it just makes me smile.  We missed Jami and her crew, hopefully the whole gang can get together for Mom's birthday, I am interested to see what kind of trouble Abbie and Rosie get into.  It is late so I will stop, but I will try to be on a little more often.  Have a good weekend.  

PS. This is for Jami, How did the kids like the candy?  You're welcome by the way.

Thursday, October 09, 2008

snap crackle pop

I have come to a conclusion.  It is a good thing that I did not try to get into a profession that requires any kind of stealth or sneaking around quietly.  I told Amber this today and she agreed and knew what I was talking about before I finished.  I can not walk without my ankle crackling like rice crispies.  It is not something I can control either.  Amber said if I am in another room, she knows when I am coming into the room she is in because she can hear my ankle crackle.  So there it is, I can never sneak up on anyone again.  I am the surprise party crasher, "Hey what is that popping sound?  Is Joby around here somewhere?"  It is not painful (my ankle, anyway), other than the pain of the repetitive noise.  I realize this is really random, but it is just one of those things that has been rattling around my head lately.  BOOMER SOONER, GO OU-BEAT TEXAS!!!!!!!

Monday, October 06, 2008

Diversification

As you have probably noticed, I have made changes to the blog.  I removed most of the pictures (except the ones that are with the posts), and the music player is gone.  I have created two new blogs.  One is for pictures: http://abbiesdaddyspictures.blogspot.com/ and one is for music:  http://abbiesdaddysmusic.blogspot.com/.  The links to the blogs are also on the right with my other links.  You can click on the picture link to see the slide show from my flickr page or click on the music blog to listen to my playlist.  I just felt the blog was getting crowded.  Let me know what you think.  I am going to try and add new things on the new blogs, but I will probably continue to do the most posting here.

PS. there is a new (short) post on my music blog.

Red River Rivalry

I had planned on finding a picture of some longhorns and posting it upside down for this post, but I thought this picture of Abbie was too cute.  She loves wearing dresses and saying cheese for pictures.  OU-Texas is this weekend and I am really excited this year.  It seems that I have had to work the past couple of years on OU-Texas, but this year I am off on Friday, Saturday and Sunday.  Also, the game could be the biggest of the year.  #1 vs. #5, ESPN College Gameday will be there, and I get to stay home and watch the WHOLE thing!  I am pumped!  I am also ready to watch the OSU-Missouri game.  I am interested to see how both teams handle the pressure of a big game against a great offense.  I think the OU-OSU game at Stillwater could be bigger for us than the Texas game (provided we beat Texas).  But, there are a bunch of games to play before worrying about that.  I also noticed that the Newkirk Tigers are 4-1 and 2-0 in District play.  Maybe the Young's leaving town has brought some success to the lowly Tigers?  Just kidding, guys.  Anyway, I am off today and tomorrow, so I hope to get some pictures and maybe some more posts in.  If not, BOOMER SOONER!!!!

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Watch out for those angry Pharmacists

I have been looking at blogs quite a bit lately.  I have been searching for blogs regarding pharmacy and to my surprise there are quite a few.  But, the sad thing is that the common thread among almost all of them is the bitterness and anger that is displayed.  These people are stressed, feel very unappreciated, and taken advantage of.  I have found at least 20 pharmacy blogs and they are littered with stories of hateful customers, doctors, and inept store management.  I have been surprised to see all this venom spit out due to my profession.  But here is the thing, I identify with ALL of them.  All of the stories make me think of days that I have had to deal with at work.  I feel like I am a positive person for the most part.  Granted, I can get pretty worked up over stuff at work just like the next guy.  I am not immune to the frustration felt when people are hateful.  I guess seeing my wife when I come home, and maybe little miss smiles-alot on the left, seem to help me leave work at work (for the most part).  So watch out for those angry pharmacists.

Monday, September 22, 2008

Pick, pick, pick

I am a little bit at a loss for words. I realize that I have not written much lately, but not much has been coming to mind. I have been thinking about "being a pest." I have been known to pick at people a little bit. I know my sister, wife, and now my daughter would attest to this. I caught myself the other day while Abbie was sleeping. She was sleeping peacefully on the couch and I had this need to run my finger on the bottom of her foot. I wanted to see if she just wiggled her foot, pulled her leg back, scratched her foot, or slapped my hand. Why? I do not know. Amber has asked me before why I persist in picking at people when it is obvious that they are not amused. I guess I just want to see a reaction. I want to see what kind of response I can elicit. I know that sounds childish, but that is about the best explanation I can come up with. It sounds better to me than "I am a jerk who likes to pester people." I even have picked at Little Al while he was sleeping. I am thankful that he is as patient as he is. The old saying about letting sleeping dogs lie just has not set in, I guess. When I was in elementary school we had a dog named Marcus. He was a voracious eater, as most dogs are. He would growl if anyone got within 3 feet of him while he was eating. Well, that was just too cool to me. I can remember him biting me twice when I pestered him while he ate. On my first day of school in the First grade, I thought it would be funny to poke the kid in front of me when he raised his hand. Needless to say, he and I started the first grade school year with our names on the board. I think he got in trouble more because his mother was the teacher, but that is neither here nor there. Does this sound stupid to anyone other than me? I am sure Jami could go on for some time about the numerous ways I have pestered her over the years. I am sorry, I just can not explain it. Anyway, say a prayer for Amber and Abbie, that they do not go crazy living with me.

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Interesting

Yes, that is a fly that I took a picture of.  Yes that is my hairy knee he is perched on.  I thought it might illustrate the point in my blog today.  Some people (ok, MOST people) would be repulsed by an image like this.  But, some would look and be interested, even fascinated.  As a parent, I have come to find out that there are events that happen that I would not have taken note of before becoming a parent, but now they are of great importance and significance.  A young child deciding on her own to go to the bathroom and poop by herself is not really a thing to be cheered and ballyhooed, is it?  It sure is if you are her parents and she has been fighting with you about potty training!  Abbie did just that today.  She went to the bathroom on her own, and went #2 by herself.  I will never cease to be amazed.  I know we may still have to work with her and have some setbacks, but it sure was something to see, no matter who you are.

Tuesday, September 09, 2008

Howdy do from stinkeroo


IMG_1937, originally uploaded by jly_thechampion.

I have been uploading photos to my flickr page by the ton. This is one from late 2006 on a football Saturday. I have been looking around on the flickr site and it is pretty interesting. The site has groups that contain certain types of photos that people have uploaded. There are groups that visually try to debunk the myth that pitbulls are just naturally evil. I had to put a couple of Little Al on there to help the cause. There is a group that has pictures of tornados, which is very cool. Since I have been adding pictures from early to late, I have seen a number of pictures that surprise me. I just can not believe the changes Abbie has made in 3 short years. She started back to Mother's Day Out today. What a difference a year makes. Last year she cried like crazy in the first few weeks, but now she is excited to "go to school." I could talk a ton about all the football I have watched in the past 4 days (it has been great!), but I do not want to bore anyone. Suffice it to say, OU has looked real good so far, but with some areas still needing work. I am finishing up my vacation and will be going back to work on Saturday. I think I have to work when OU plays Texas, too. That seems to happen every year! Have a good week.

Thursday, August 28, 2008

Vacation

Well, my first piece of vacation is about over. I am bummed about having to go back to work. My schedule looks to be shaping up well, though. I have to work Saturday and Sunday, but will be off Monday for Labor day. Tuesday will be tough. I am working at the Supercenter on I-35 in Norman, which is usually busy anyway but the day after a holiday could be a monster. Then, I work Wednesday and Thursday at my store. Friday will start another 8 days off, that is so cool! People have asked where we were going on vacation, and aside from seeing my family in Ada, we did not go anywhere. That is OK with me. I enjoy traveling as much as the next guy, but sometimes there is something to be said for spending some downtime at home. If you have not noticed, I added a new link to my flickr page (the links are on the right just below the picture labelled "Little Miss Stinker"). It is a site that I am in the process of uploading my digital photos to. Take a look and see what you think. Right now I am still loading photos from early '06, so it is a little trip down memory lane. If my blog can handle it, I am planning on adding a widget that will display ALL the pictures from my flickr page, so be on the lookout.
Another thing that has me smiling is the start of college football season. OU plays this weekend and I am ready for the season to get rolling, BOOMER SOONER! The new season of House will be starting September 16, I think. I am excited to see some new episodes. Here is a link to a little video montage of House that is pretty cool: http://www.fanpop.com/spots/house-md/videos/2163020 . If you know my Dad, see if you don't think Hugh Laurie looks like him. Sometimes he really looks like Dad to me. If you are having trouble with motivation to get something done or believing in yourself, see if this video doesn't get you moving: http://www.fanpop.com/spots/michael-jordan/videos/3109 . It is just after 11PM and Al just came in. He can push the backdoor open by himself to get back in the house and he scares me to death every time he does it. I wish I could get him to close it, too. I hope everyone has a good weekend. Check out my new stuff and tell me what you think.

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Tonicity

Man it is amazing to look back and see where "a train of thought" can take you. As I was mowing today, I had sweat get into my eyes. It stung, but why did it sting? My thoughts on this and other ocular related problems from today are tonights topics.

Where to begin? Earlier today, before I mowed, I was messing around on the computer when I heard Abbie. Generally when she cries for something I can tell her fake cry from her angry or "I am serious" cry. This was something different all together (and everyone says "This was something different.") This was a high pitched cry of "Uh-oh, what is happening?" I run in and find her in our bathroom. She has a tube of cream in her hands, cream on her hands and face and cream smeared on the floor. I must interject that Abbie likes to get tubes of cream and rub it on her face, pretend and for real. This time was for real, but the unfortunate thing was that this was not body or face cream, it was a sore muscle rub equivalent to Ben Gay. So Abbie was getting a new sensation from her cream. The problem was that she had it all over her hands. Every time I hurriedly tried to get it out of her eyes she would stick her fingers right back to her eyes. After trying to flush her face with water in the bathroom, I ran her into the kitchen and used the spray nozzle on the sink to hose her eyes as much as she would let me. It was a sight to say the least. Once we both we hosed off, I noticed she had also dropped a huge load in her shorts. So she was drenched in cold water, her eyes burning, skin tingling like never before, smelling like a spearmint life saver, and loaded up with a poopy pull-up. After we got her cleaned up, she was shivering uncontrollably. Amber bundled her up and rocked her for a while and Abbie fell asleep. I was freaked out. I was afraid she still had something in her eyes and she would wake up blind. So while she was sleeping, I went out to mow. As I was mowing, thoughts of Abbie's eyes were running through my head. Then some sweat got in my eyes and I started to think about what it is in sweat that stings your eyes. Is it a tonicity issue, or is it the components of the sweat or is it both?
Tonicity is basically a term for how much stuff is floating around in your eye. If you put a liquid in your eye that has more stuff floating around in it than what your eye has, the water in your eye will push out of the eye into the liquid. Generally, this is not something you want to do because your eye will let you know about it if you know what I mean. There is an eye drop on the market that actually does this. I think the percent of solution that is in the eye is about 0.9%, and the eye drop (Muro-128) is 5%. So if you have swelling in the cornea, put Muro in there and it pulls fluid out. But, I have been told that it will sting a tad, too.
Kind of strange stuff to be thinking about while mowing, huh? Anyway, I got the yard mowed and when Abbie woke up, she was her usual happy self. Her eyes looked just fine. I was very relieved. I am afraid our bathroom is going to smell like a spearmint life saver for a long time, though.

Sunday, August 24, 2008

ABC's

You may have to turn this up, Abbie was not very close to the microphone. She is actually signing the letters while saying them. Do not forget to pause the music player while listening to Abbie!

Tons of fun




We just got back from visiting my family in Ada. We had a fun time and Abbie really enjoyed playing with her cousins. As you can see in the pictures, it was constant motion and commotion. The battle for our attention was sometimes fun to watch, but almost became sensory overload. I think Abbie and Rosie (in the middle of the bottom picture) could be a terrible twosome and good friends, if they get to spend some more time together. I have a new appreciation for my sister as she loves and guides these three wonderful souls. They are wonderful children and I look forward to seeing them grow. I need to figure out some times to get together more, it is good to be with family. I am too prone to getting into the go to work, come home, go to work rut. I hope to get into better "ruts," but it is hard for me to do.
Sadly, the Olympics are over. I sure did enjoy watching, I just wish they could have gone on another week. Then I would not have to wait a whole week for OU football season to kickoff. Again, I would like to go to a couple of games, but I am not sure if it will work out. Just having college football start up is exciting enough, though.
I have been messing with my playlist and I kind of wonder what everyone thinks when they listen to some of my choices. I almost wish there was a way for me to explain why I like some of the songs. I bet some of you would like an explanation, too. I noticed I have a number of songs that have some heavy guitar riffs, but I also enjoy harmonies and melodies. I may try to explain some of them if you wish, just let me know.


Tuesday, August 12, 2008

The Olympics


I think it is safe to say that I have "olympics-fever." If you have read my blog much, you know that I really enjoy watching people performing at their best. The Olympics are just that, the best in the world showing their talents. Throw in the national pride that is involved and I am hooked. I have been watching as much of the coverage as I can. I have even watched badminton, trap shooting, and synchronized diving. Can you believe that? I just love watching the competition. The event that really got me up off of my seat was the Men's 4x100 freestyle swimming relay. I have been on a Michael Phelps watch since the games started. If you do not know about Phelps, he is a swimmer who got 6 gold and 2 bronze medals 4 years ago (at age 19). This year he is attemping to break Mark Spitz's 7 gold medal record in one olympics. I could talk about that for quite awhile. Phelps was the first leg of the relay. Before the race, the anchor for the French team (the heavy favorites) was talking trash and saying all they came to do was "smash the Americans." I do not like trash talk like that to begin with, but when it is the French and they are dogging Phelps and Co.? Oh man, it is going to get serious. If you have not watched the relay, you should. Before I go on, click this link and watch the race.
Now, was that not inspiring? I was watching that live at 10:45PM and since Abbie was asleep on the couch, I had to jump and quietly go nuts. That kind of performance by someone who has been ripped on by the media and considered washed up (Jason Lezak) just gives me goosebumps. Usually when Phelps wins a race he is pretty calm. I have never seen him so pumped up! I just wanted to go run 20 miles at 11PM! I could go on about a number of other events and people that are fun to watch, but I think that relay has been the best event so far. Phelps swims for 2 more medals tonight (Tuesday). I will give you one more amazing fact before finishing up. While training, Michael Phelps consumes 8000 to 10000 calories a day. Can you believe that? It takes most people 3 1/2 to 4 days to consume that much, and he is a bean-pole! I hope you all have a good week and I will try to write some more if I can get some time away from the Olympics.

Friday, August 08, 2008

I'm right, you're WRONG

I no longer watch Saturday Night Live with any regularity, but there was a skit they used to do that reminds me of myself. It was when Dana Carvey was on the cast and he would imitate John McLaughlin's talk show. Carvey would have about 4 guests and ask them random political questions, but he would usually cut them off by yelling "WRONG!" It did not matter what they said, they were WRONG! I know I am not always right, not by a long shot, but if I am questioned when I KNOW I am right, I feel like Dana Carvey's character. I do not know why, but I just get an insatiable urge to prove that I am right. I know there are two sides to every story, and that the other person has their reasons for whatever they are doing/saying, but if I am right, then I am right. Even as I write this, I feel bad for acting this way. I do not know if it is competitiveness or just pride, but I really want to prove I am right. It is not like I am brow beating people with my opinions all the time, it just seems to catch me here and there. Something someone says that makes me feel like they think I am wrong (and stupid for being wrong) and it just goes all over me. I have to watch it at work, because customers can do this type of thing pretty often. I think with them I have learned to take the high road for the most part and let them have their way. It sure is hard to swallow the old pride down, hard enough that I still do not do it very well. I think I sound pretty egomaniacal right now. I hope I do not come across the way this is sounding. I just had some stuff at work get me thinking about how I handle these situations. For example, customers often ask questions about over the counter medications. I often enjoy helping people find remedies over the counter. But, sometimes people ask questions strictly to hear someone say "yes you should take what you have already picked out, you are right." But if they do not have the right medication for their symptoms, I am not going tell them that. It really bugs me when I tell someone they should use a different product and they use the one they had already decided they wanted. WHY WASTE MY TIME? I simply wasted my time trying to explain the rationale of why they should use something that might work better than what they have in their hands. WOW, where did that come from? Sorry for getting on a rant like that. I AM glad to have the weekend off, though (obviously). Have a good one.

Tuesday, August 05, 2008

MUSIC

Unless you have your volume turned off, have no speakers, or are real hard of hearing, you hopefully have noticed the newest addition to my blog. I have added a playlist of some of my favorite music. The songs that play are hand selected by yours truly. I am trying to add more of my favorites all the time, so the list will change. You may recognize some, you may despise some, but I thought it would be a cool way to add a little more of me to my blog. If you really do not like the sounds, turn the volume down or click pause on the player. I would recommend scrolling through the list and see what you think. Click on a song to hear it. Let me know what you think of the tunes, and enjoy!

Sunday, August 03, 2008

Whew


I am thankful to have made it to the end of the week (my week anyway). Seven days straight is not what it used to be. Dad is working seven on and seven off and driving 3-4 hours to begin and end as well, so here's to you, Dad, I feel for ya. Although, seven days off would almost make up for the seven on. I am afraid for what this winter is going to be like. Our intern is going back to school in a couple of weeks and I think we are going to be hurting when he goes. It is nice to have an intern working because he can really take up the slack, plus our intern is a hard worker. Let me just interject that it is very frightening to be typing a blog with earphones on and have your elbow licked out of nowhere (Thanks Al). But as I said, I think if we have anything of a cold season like last year, things could get hectic to say the least.

I upgraded to a new cell phone this week. Who would have imagined 30 or even 15 years ago that we could have cell phones with live TV on them. It is pretty cool. I fancy myself fairly up to date with electronics, but this has some cool stuff. The storage disk that goes in it is no bigger than my fingernail and holds 4GB. That is just mind-blowing to me. The thing is, this phone is really not even the "top of the line" model anyway. Since I have been playing with my new phone, I have been messing with ringtones. Usually, if I hear someone's goofy song ringtone, I wonder what they are thinking. But, I kind of like trying to attach ringtones to contacts that kind of remind me about that person. For example, if my sister calls, the theme from Rocky plays. Jami is a runner and a very determined one at that. If Amber calls, the theme from Law and Order plays, because that is her favorite show in the whole world. If Derrick calls, Boomer Sooner, because...need I explain? I found a ringtone from a cartoon that is a very young child trying to get his mother's attention by saying "Ma, Mom, Momma," over and over and over. I thought that was good for mom's number. For my In-Laws it is the theme from Cape Fear, JUST KIDDING! I would not do that, I love Ralph and Janice alot. Anyway, it may sound stupid, but I kind of have fun with it. By the way, I have the theme from House as a ringtone, too. If I called myself, that would be MY ringtone.

Friday, August 01, 2008

Hello everyone, sorry I have not been able to blog in awhile. It has been a long week. I have not had a day off since last Sunday and will not be off until Monday. Work has not been bad, it just really chews up any spare time I might be able to find.

Monday, July 21, 2008

Swimmin

We went swimming today. This picture is from a few days ago, Abbie and her cousins were trying out her "slip and slide." When I got home today, it just seemed like a day to be in a pool. Abbie's cousins Jake and Zach were over and I asked if they wanted to go. They have a pool in their subdivision. Once I said swimming, Abbie was all for it. She said "swim, swimmin," to me about 20 times in a minute or two, so we went swimming. Abbie loves it. She has a floaty vest that she wears, but she is pretty brave when it comes to getting a mouthful of water. She knows to kick her legs and really has a ball with it. If Daddy hadn't gotten sunscreen in her eyes, it would have been the perfect time. I hope she continues to enjoy swimming and that we can keep giving her those opportunities.
Tonight, I worked out. It was the first vigorous workout I have done in almost a year. Anyone who has seen me recently will attest to this. I got my Garmin out and hooked in to the new computer, so now I just need to push myself some to get back to running. I think 3-4 weeks of regular workouts on the eliptical and I may be able to venture onto the track. I will keep you posted, keep your fingers crossed.
Have you ever had one of those miniature tape recorders for notes and stuff? I have one and I did not even have to pay for it. It is the Abbie Kay Young virtual repeater 3000. She has a nack for spitting out whatever goes in her little ears. At times it is funny, sometimes embarassing, and sometimes downright scary. I enjoy getting her to say "hi, thank you," and "you're welcome," even though she can still get the timing mixed up. I may try and get her to read her favorite book for you all soon, so keep watching. Have a good week.

Tuesday, July 15, 2008

"He was his own greatest fan"

I often wonder why it is that I generally laugh the hardest when I tell a joke or funny anecdote. Is it that I am the only one that gets it, or is it that it is just not THAT funny? I get a kick out of plays on words and sayings that you have to think about for a second to catch the humor. For instance, have you seen the stickers at the gas pumps lately that say "our gas has at least 10% ethanol"? I saw a sign outside of a liquor store today that said "our ethanol has absolutely no gas in it." I guffawed for a block or two over that one. But, most people probably barely giggle at that. I am one of the oddballs who likes a good pun, even though that is probably an oxymoron. I just think a good pun is its own reword. See, even now, I am having trouble not giggling at that one. A pharmacist I used to work with would tell people who were about to take a colonoscopy prep, "I hope everything comes out ok." Generally, when I come up with one of my own puns about something at work, I think it is hilarious and everyone else moans in agony. The oddities of words and how they can be twisted has always been cool to me. I love words like "palindrome," "onomatopoeia," and "over-pronation." Maybe my enjoyment of words and the twisting of meanings is also the reason for my aggravation at butchering those same words with bad grammar. I would like a little input on this blog, let me know what you think of puns or if I have ever annoyed you with one before. In the meantime, here is one I found just now, so enjoy!

A woman has twins, and gives them up for adoption. One of them goes to a family in Egypt and is named "Amal." The other goes to a family in Spain; they name him "Juan." Years later, Juan sends a picture of himself to his mom. Upon receiving the picture, she tells her husband that she wishes she also had a picture of Amal. Her husband responds, "But they are twins-if you've seen Juan, you've seen Amal."

Thank you, thank you very much.

Wednesday, July 09, 2008

Signing Time


Greetings and salivations to all. I hope the week is going well. I was wondering if I have talked about Signing Time yet? If I have, I am sorry, but it is such a big thing around here that I would be remiss if I did not talk about it. Signing time is a children's show on PBS that teaches ASL (American Sign Language). The host of the show is a woman whose two girls use sign language due to their disabilities. They make learning signs enjoyable by using children and songs to show and remind what the signs are. Abbie loves it. She is starting to get her ABC's down and she continues to surprise me with signs she has learned. The other day we were getting ready to go somewhere and I asked her if she was ready. She said and signed "ready". I had no idea that was a word she had learned. Another time, Abbie was wanting me to watch her and she signed and said "pay attention" (That was both cute and scary at the same time). It is pretty neat to see her get into singing and signing a song. If you get a chance to see Signing Time, just watch for a little while. It is a pretty neat show.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Let your yes be yes...

Amber and I had a sad revelation today. We are becoming an endangered species, the married couple that stays married. I do not know what the failure rate is for marriages today, but I think it is 60% or higher. That is such a sad statistic. Amber and I have been married for 9 years now and it seems to us like no time at all. The scary thing is that most people would look at us and think we have been together "forever." It just seems to me that when people vow to someone "for better or worse," and "til death do us part," that better than 40% of them would actually MEAN IT. I usually try to stay away from preaching or politics on my blog, but it was a sobering thought that our 9 year marriage would be considered a "long" one. I could really go on and on about taking responsibility and how everything is someone else's fault these days. Let me just finish my preaching by thanking my parents and my in-laws for setting a standard and providing two great examples to their children of taking a vow and meaning it.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Lots to say

So much time and so little to say. Strike that, reverse it. I feel like I have a bunch of stuff to talk about, but I am afraid it will only come out as random anecdotes and ramblings. I am in a musical "mood," if you could call it that. I took my MP3 player to work this weekend and it was eye-opening to hear some tunes again. I listened to some classic rock, contemporary Christian, and of course, The Beatles. Then, Amadeus was on this evening. Although it is not really a documentary, it is a great movie and Mozart had unbelieveable talent. So, after listening to The Beatles, and watching Amadeus, I have been thinking about people who can not only play wonderful music, but about the people who wrote it. Mozart was composing at 4, can you believe that? Lennon and McCartney went from Love Me Do to the epic Abbey Road and even to the sometimes bizarre white album. There was a big evolution in their songs from the early to late 60's, but they still produced some of the best music ever (in my opinion). I just want to interject a word of thanks to my Dad for introducing me to most of the music I have been talking about. Without Dad's album collection or listening to classic rock stations to and from our trips to work, I would have no idea who Edgar Winter is or what the rockin' pneumonia and boogie woogie flu is. Dad's enjoyment became my enjoyment. Then, about when I hit my junior year of high school, I started to have my own music to enjoy. Nirvana, Pearl Jam, Stone Temple Pilots, and some other bands from the Seattle area just really seemed to have the music I liked. When the lead singer of Nirvana died, the drummer, Dave Grohl, went on to make an album of songs he had written. He played drums, guitar, bass, and sang on almost the whole album. Just another example of a really gifted musician and song writer, just in a different package than John Lennon or Paul McCartney. Actually, Dave Grohl recently got up on stage at a Paul McCartney concert and played drums for Band on the Run (one of McCartney's hits with his band Wings), and Grohl's group, the Foo Fighters, did a remake of the song. I feel like I am rambling a little, but as I say, listening to some music has gotten me thinking.

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Post-birthday thoughts


Well, Abbie's 3rd birthday has officially ended. Celebrations may now cease. All kidding aside, things went pretty well with the birthday this year. Amber toned down the extravaganza and I think it helped her (Amber) to be able to relax a little and enjoy the party more. Abbie had a good time at Chuckie Cheese with Barney, but really enjoyed the cupcakes and presents at home. The family enjoyed putting together Abbie's blocks (yes, we really did). At my parents house it was fun to see Abbie playing with Rachel, Rosie and Lawrence. I did not take my camera, so I am sorry for no pictures of that. I was glad to have some time off to celebrate, it was a fun time.

It was different to see Mom and Dad's new house. The house at Newkirk was such an icon that I have a tough time thinking of Mom and Dad "at home" anywhere else. Their new home is real nice. It is always fun to get into a home that no one else has been in yet. They both seemed happy with the home and I think being nearer to Jami and the kids is good for Mom and Dad and Jami. They are closer to us, too. It really is not that far for us, but that two lane highway through rural Oklahoma is a little bothersome at times (for some reason, Dueling banjos started playing in my head).
While we were at Mom and Dad's, Jami played the piano. I fancy myself to at least be musically informed, but the piano is just beyond me. I took lessons as a youngster, but of course did not apply myself and they did not take. Now, I would love to be able to sit at a piano, put a sheet of music up and just play. That is a wonderful talent. I suppose I could pick up a tuba and play, but as you know, tubas are not quite as melodious as pianos. It is a little tougher to find one lying around, too. I say all that to say that I am proud and even jealous of my talented sister. I wish I had her talent with the piano.
OK, I am going to see what stinky-britches is up to. Have a good weekend. Oh, by the way, Tiger Woods is one shot off the lead in the US Open after two rounds. It may not sound like much, but it is his first tournament back since having knee surgery, so he is allowed to struggle, isn't he?


Monday, June 09, 2008

Abbie Kay is 3 today!


Three years ago today, Abbie was born. It is hard to believe. I remember some things very vividly, but I am already having trouble remembering how small she was, and what it was like to have a newborn to take home. Three years have passed so quickly, and I am afraid that they are going to pass even quicker now. As the great orator and leader Ferris Bueller once said, "Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once and a while, you could miss it."


HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SQUIRT, DADDY LOVES YOU!

Sunday, June 08, 2008

Horses, horses, horses


I have talked before about Tiger Woods and how dominant he has been in golf. I also talked about this year's New England Patriots and their try for a perfect season. But, the triple crown chase this year in horse racing has had me remembering a horse that dominated before I was even born. This picture is of Secretariat winning the 1973 Belmont stakes in what is possibly the most dominant display by a horse ever. He won by 31 lengths, and ran a time for the mile and 1/2 that has never been matched. I just watched his Kentucky Derby, Preakness, and Belmont wins on YouTube (just search Secretariat super horse on YouTube). The video is not the best, but the soundtrack is from the movie "Superman," and it is really something to see the performances this horse put on. I am not a horse racing person. But, I do think horses are very beautiful, graceful, and powerful animals. I do not know if another horse will come along like Secretariat, but I would love to watch if it does.

Sunday, June 01, 2008

Pictures


Here are some pictures from Memorial Day weekend at Oilton. There were a ton to choose from. It was good to get Abbie together with her cousins, I am hoping to do more of that in the future.

























Monday, May 26, 2008

Congrats Hannah!


Our niece Hannah graduated High school last week. She was in the top 10% of a class of over 600. That was pretty impressive to someone from a class of 52 (number of students, not the year, thank you). I had a different take on this graduation than I have before. After the ceremony, we went to Hannah's parent's house for food and presents. Howard and Alana had put together a slide show of Hannah growing up. It made me realize how fast things happen and that Abbie will be there in no time. I cannot imagine how hard it will be for Howard and Alana to let their little girl go. It breaks my heart to think of how to deal with that. I also came away from graduation with more respect for Howard and Alana. In the times that we live, they have done a great job in raising a wonderful, smart, and respectful young woman. I think being around more families like theirs was one of our main reasons for moving here. I think we have not expressed that enough. The whole evening was impressive to me, and I was glad to be a part of it.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Little Miss Sunshine

Abbie's last day at Mother's day out was Thursday. They had a little program to celebrate. Each class came out and sang a song or two for the audience. Abbie's class sang one of her favorite songs. She must have been overwhelmed with the crowd, because she did more staring than singing. The night before she had been singing her song a little differently than usual. She kept inserting the word "loud" at a certain point in the song. We figured they had been practicing and the teachers were telling them to sing louder as they sang the song. It was a real fun thing to watch, and it makes me feel like Abbie is growing up. She is talking more and more each day. One of her favorite shows is called "Signing Time." It is on PBS and is a cool show that teaches sign language. It has helped Abbie with new words and she has learned the signs, too. I think it is going to be another beautiful day today. I hope to get out and walk or go to the park so Abbie can play outside. She loves to be outside whenever she can. I hope everyone has a good weekend.

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day

Happy Mother's Day to all the moms out there. I have to say this one was good and bad for us. It was good for Amber and I to spend some time together when I got home from work this weekend. It was bad because Abbie had an ear infection and we had to cancel our trip to see my Mom and their new house. Amber's mother was also very ill and bedridden today. It can really create problems when I have to work on the weekend. Abbie's little ear issues cause problems, too. I was very dissappointed that we did not get to see Mom and Dad. It has been tough to get time to see them since we moved down here. I am hoping that their moving will help with some of that. But I do hope everyone has had a wonderful Mother's day.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Getting back in the swing

















It sure is good to start a new week. Last week was not a good one around here. My last post about vomit was meant to put some humor to something that is not humorous. Unfortunately, the vomit was just the beginning. Abbie was sick all week with fever, vomiting, and diarrhea. She just could not shake it. A couple of times during the week she seemed to have turned the corner, only to throw up again later. Amber came down with the vomiting in a big way on Wednesday night. She could not keep anything down through Thursday. It got bad enough that we went to the emergency room on Thursday afternoon. Amber was given 2 bags of IV fluids and some anti-nausea medication. Abbie took some medication but would not drink anything, so she had to have an IV, too. She did much better than you would think a 2 1/2 year old would do getting an IV in the arm. Abbie sat in between my legs and rested her head on my stomach while she got the IV. It was amazing to see the change in her after the fluid got into her system. She started talking and even singing some, too. It was good to hear. Amber said it was surprising how good the fluids made her feel. After the ER visit, Abbie really made a quick recovery. Momma still had a day or so of recovery, but seemed to be closer to 100% today. Abbie has really taken to playing with her swingset, as you can see in the pictures. We took over 30 pictures this evening while she was playing. She seems to be a daredevil. She climbs the rope ladder by herself and slides down the slide (especially if she has an audience). Ralph and Janice brought some sand for the sandbox and Abbie loves that, too. She kept trying to feed the sand to Al. After such a tough week, it was great to have our family healthy, happy, and home to play outside and enjoy the beautiful weather today.







Monday, April 14, 2008

Why are hospital emesis basins so small?

emesis
noun
the reflex act of ejecting the contents of the stomach through the mouth [syn: vomit, upchuck, barf, ralph, spew, hurl, heave, puke, blow chunks, call Ralph on the big white phone, air out your gastric contents, barf up a lung, be a food fountain, burp for the hearing impaired, decorate the porcelain, make an alimentary u-turn]

Abbie has been sick the past couple of days. If you could not guess, she was throwing up. For some strange reason, I have been thinking about emesis lately. I can not remember seeing Abbie vomit like she did on Saturday. It was like her mouth was the end of the faucet and the valve was all the way open. I started thinking, that takes some violence to get the fluids flying up like that. When the body does not want something in the stomach, it has a stout mechanism to get rid of it. Seinfeld had an episode where Jerry talked about his vomit streak. He had not puked in 13 years. The streak came to an end near the end of the episode. I am sure Mom has been shaking her head and muttering, "Where did I go wrong?" while she reads this. Sorry Mom, but seeing Abbie spew gave me a new perspective on reverse peristalsis. I felt it was a relevant and worthwhile topic to chew on (pardon the pun). If anyone is interested, I found a website with a huge number of vomit synonyms (you know, for parties and such): http://www.geocities.com/mbordt/chunder2.htm .

Wednesday, April 09, 2008

Mornin'


I have been a little under the weather the past couple of days. Some kind of cold or something that has really taken it out of me. I felt much better today. Especially when I was awakened by this little face saying, "Mornin', mornin'." I took this picture last Sunday. Abbie had a matching dress with her little doll and she just looked beautiful. Amber and I have commented on how much more fun it is with Abbie the more she speaks. I used to feel like we carried on conversations without her speaking, but now I can not get a word in edgewise. Anyway, I am feeling better and I hope to be 100% by the weekend. I think I will need it since Mom has lots of work planned for me. I am so excited!

Saturday, April 05, 2008

"That don't make no sense"

Sometimes when I start a new post, I look at the blank square and I draw a blank. But, there are times when I have a blog that just seems to grow and fester inside my head. I often have all the words and phrases that I want to say in my mind, but when I type the blog it often does not turn out how I had thought it would. I wish I could connect my thoughts to the computer the way I do with the digital camera. Just download the thoughts and trim them up on the computer. Anyway, this is a blog that I have been thinking about for awhile, I hope it comes out the way I have pictured.
My mother is an English teacher. I say IS even though she is retired, because you do not stop teaching English even though you are not in the classroom. Growing up with a mother who taught English was good and bad. It was good when I had papers to write because she could help me correct them and could give me a feel for what was a good paper and a bad paper. It was bad when she corrected my speech (many, many, many, many times) because I was speaking incorrectly. As I have grown, I have learned (surprisingly enough), and I try to speak and write correctly. Every time I write a post, I worry over the grammar because I do not want to make a mistake. I am by no means an English teacher, but Mom taught me well. So now I have the curse of noticing grammar mistakes around me. It is like fingernails on the chalkboard to hear how some people butcher the English language (again, I am not an English teacher, nor do I claim to be one). I am not talking about dangling participles or ending sentences with prepositions. I am talking about blatant, brutal, and egregious mistakes that non-English teachers' sons would catch. I have a co-worker (yes here is the reason for this whole diatribe) who speaks very little in terms of correct grammar, but speaks great volumes in terms of sheer words. One of her favorite exclamations is "that don't make no sense." IT IS NOT SAID FOR EFFECT, SHE MEANS IT! Now, I know this all sounds petty and it probably is, but imagine hearing phrases like that all day, every day at work. Can you see where I am coming from? I realize that "they don't know no better," but when that kind of language is used in dealing with the public, I think it makes the rest of us look bad, too. I am serious, sometimes I just think to myself, "You did not just say that, did you?" Maybe I notice her speech because she is abrasive and rubs me the wrong way, but I think I would notice even if a good friend talked like that.

I do not want to think higher of myself than others, but that is pretty much what I have done, isn't it? I just wanted to get something out that bugs me. I am definitely NOT saying I am perfect in my grammar, but it does bother me when things don't make no sense.

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

"I've got the genetics for it"

There are a number of ways to say it. "The apple does not fall far from the tree," or "she is her mother's daughter." The way we always said it in my family was, "He has the genetics for it." Things that our parents have given to us, and often their parents gave to them. I am grateful for many of the traits that I have from my parents, but migraine headaches are not one of them. I have always been thankful that I did not have headaches like Dad has had. This morning, I had a migraine. It is strange to think of a headache making you sick to your stomach, but it sure can. I generally would not be so sure of calling it a migraine, but when migraine medication gets rid of it, it is probably a migraine. Amber had a sample of Relpax left over from her battle with migraines a couple of years ago. I had to try it because I would not have been much good at work in that condition. After a couple of hours, I felt OK. As migraines go, it probably was not the worst in the world, but it was one of the worst headaches I have had. Amber thinks I should see a doctor because my headaches have been increasing in number and (unfortunately) severity. After the one this morning, I am inclined to agree with her. I talked with Dad tonight about his headaches and the similarities with mine. He said he had had a migraine this morning, too. It just makes me think that I had better get some more medication before the next one. Because I have a bad feeling that there WILL be a next one. Thanks, Dad, I really appreciate it!

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Swing, plee




The picture on the left is from June 4, 2006, the picture on the right is from today. I finally put Abbie's swingset back together. She was quite pleased. I wondered if she would still like to swing as much as she did before. She does, only now she can say, "Swing, plee." The "z" sound at the end of please has not been figured out yet. She was not at all happy to get out after her swing. Abbie does seem to be learning please, thank you, and your welcome. Although they are sounding more like "plee, cank you, welcome" she does get the timing right of when to say each.

Friday, March 21, 2008

Happy Birthday Ralph




My father-in-law turned 70 on St. Patrick's Day. Abbie learned this rendition of Happy Birthday for him. He has the birthday present that keeps on giving: kidney stones. He is going in on Monday to try and break them up. Ralph and Janice are great in-laws. They have always been supportive and never tried to make our decisions for us. But, since June 9, 2005, they seem to be interested in one member of our family much more than the others! We are planning on having a party this weekend for Ralph, it should be a HOOT! Have a good weekend.