


Musings of a thirtysomething Daddy who also happens be a pharmacist. "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt" -Abraham Lincoln



Embarrassing pictures that parents take of their kids are fun aren't they? If you are the parent, of course. I could not resist catching Abbie "in the act." There is an old photo of me in a similar position, but I had fallen asleep. Over the years that photo has provided much joy for many family members not named Joby. So that is why Abbie gets the same treatment. I know, my photo was not broadcast over the internet, but that is the price you pay for technology, right? By the way, her favorite part of this process is when she comes running out of the bathroom with her underwear around her ankles yelling "all done, all done!"
I went to my first Thunder basketball game last night. My brother-in-law has season tickets and was nice enough to ask my father-in-law and I if we would like to go to the game against the Rockets. I enjoy watching sports, but I am not a fan of being in crowds of LOTS of people. I have been to a few sporting events in my life. Our family used to go to Kansas City and watch Royals games when I was younger. I got to see George Brett and Bo Jackson hit home runs and Bo broke a bat over his knee. I have only been to a couple of Sooner football games. One at Norman and the Big 12 Championship in 2004 at Kansas City. That being said, I think one of the best parts of going to the event is the crowd. Yes, it is fun to watch the stars shine on their stage, but when the crowd gets into a good game, that is what I enjoy most. There were some good crowds at Kansas City, but in an open park like that, it was not overpowering. The big 12 championship was almost all Sooner fans and when AD ran for a touchdown to our endzone, it got pretty nuts. I was hoping the crowd would be "electric" for the game last night and for the most part I was dissappointed. Do not get me wrong, I really enjoyed the game, but the crowd seemed flat for the most part. The team played a good 1st quarter and a decent 2nd quarter to trail at half 56-50. I thought the 1st half was a good showing and more than I expected against a team as good as the Rockets. The 3rd quarter was brutal. The Thunder could not hit anything and by the time they started to score, they were down by about 15. Through all this time it seemed to me the crowd was not as loud or excited as I had expected. The 4th quarter was better and the Thunder looked like they could make a run. I started to feel the crowd coming alive and there were critical points that could have turned the game. First, early in the quarter, the Thunder trimmed the lead to 8 and had a chance to get it to 6. After a steal, we had the ball and the crowd was into it. The Rockets fouled us and called timeout before the free throws. Our best player was still on the bench for his start of the 4th quarter rest. The coach did not put him back in, we missed both free throws, Houston made a couple of buckets and in no time we were down by 12 instead of 6. Then, later in the quarter the team started playing good defense and the crowd started to pick up. THE play that could have "Blown the roof off the dump" was a breakaway after a Houston turnover. We were pushing the ball up and I could see Kevin Durant (our best player) coming on the backside for an alleyoop that would have been HUGE. But the pass was behind him and we turned the ball over and the crowd just fizzled. I had a good time and I think the team can be good, they are just young.
I am a little bit at a loss for words. I realize that I have not written much lately, but not much has been coming to mind. I have been thinking about "being a pest." I have been known to pick at people a little bit. I know my sister, wife, and now my daughter would attest to this. I caught myself the other day while Abbie was sleeping. She was sleeping peacefully on the couch and I had this need to run my finger on the bottom of her foot. I wanted to see if she just wiggled her foot, pulled her leg back, scratched her foot, or slapped my hand. Why? I do not know. Amber has asked me before why I persist in picking at people when it is obvious that they are not amused. I guess I just want to see a reaction. I want to see what kind of response I can elicit. I know that sounds childish, but that is about the best explanation I can come up with. It sounds better to me than "I am a jerk who likes to pester people." I even have picked at Little Al while he was sleeping. I am thankful that he is as patient as he is. The old saying about letting sleeping dogs lie just has not set in, I guess. When I was in elementary school we had a dog named Marcus. He was a voracious eater, as most dogs are. He would growl if anyone got within 3 feet of him while he was eating. Well, that was just too cool to me. I can remember him biting me twice when I pestered him while he ate. On my first day of school in the First grade, I thought it would be funny to poke the kid in front of me when he raised his hand. Needless to say, he and I started the first grade school year with our names on the board. I think he got in trouble more because his mother was the teacher, but that is neither here nor there. Does this sound stupid to anyone other than me? I am sure Jami could go on for some time about the numerous ways I have pestered her over the years. I am sorry, I just can not explain it. Anyway, say a prayer for Amber and Abbie, that they do not go crazy living with me.
Yes, that is a fly that I took a picture of. Yes that is my hairy knee he is perched on. I thought it might illustrate the point in my blog today. Some people (ok, MOST people) would be repulsed by an image like this. But, some would look and be interested, even fascinated. As a parent, I have come to find out that there are events that happen that I would not have taken note of before becoming a parent, but now they are of great importance and significance. A young child deciding on her own to go to the bathroom and poop by herself is not really a thing to be cheered and ballyhooed, is it? It sure is if you are her parents and she has been fighting with you about potty training! Abbie did just that today. She went to the bathroom on her own, and went #2 by herself. I will never cease to be amazed. I know we may still have to work with her and have some setbacks, but it sure was something to see, no matter who you are.
I have been uploading photos to my flickr page by the ton. This is one from late 2006 on a football Saturday. I have been looking around on the flickr site and it is pretty interesting. The site has groups that contain certain types of photos that people have uploaded. There are groups that visually try to debunk the myth that pitbulls are just naturally evil. I had to put a couple of Little Al on there to help the cause. There is a group that has pictures of tornados, which is very cool. Since I have been adding pictures from early to late, I have seen a number of pictures that surprise me. I just can not believe the changes Abbie has made in 3 short years. She started back to Mother's Day Out today. What a difference a year makes. Last year she cried like crazy in the first few weeks, but now she is excited to "go to school." I could talk a ton about all the football I have watched in the past 4 days (it has been great!), but I do not want to bore anyone. Suffice it to say, OU has looked real good so far, but with some areas still needing work. I am finishing up my vacation and will be going back to work on Saturday. I think I have to work when OU plays Texas, too. That seems to happen every year! Have a good week.
You may have to turn this up, Abbie was not very close to the microphone. She is actually signing the letters while saying them. Do not forget to pause the music player while listening to Abbie!



Happy Mother's Day to all the moms out there. I have to say this one was good and bad for us. It was good for Amber and I to spend some time together when I got home from work this weekend. It was bad because Abbie had an ear infection and we had to cancel our trip to see my Mom and their new house. Amber's mother was also very ill and bedridden today. It can really create problems when I have to work on the weekend. Abbie's little ear issues cause problems, too. I was very dissappointed that we did not get to see Mom and Dad. It has been tough to get time to see them since we moved down here. I am hoping that their moving will help with some of that. But I do hope everyone has had a wonderful Mother's day.
My father-in-law turned 70 on St. Patrick's Day. Abbie learned this rendition of Happy Birthday for him. He has the birthday present that keeps on giving: kidney stones. He is going in on Monday to try and break them up. Ralph and Janice are great in-laws. They have always been supportive and never tried to make our decisions for us. But, since June 9, 2005, they seem to be interested in one member of our family much more than the others! We are planning on having a party this weekend for Ralph, it should be a HOOT! Have a good weekend.